Life is often categorised in many groups. Often depend on a yes or no, letting go or holding on.
It is decided by you, neither fate nor god could make the decision or get your future planned ahead for you.
Relying on fate is just an excuse to facing the truth, the music. It's nothing different from running away.
There's both pros and cons for letting go and holding on though.
Hold on, if you feel that everything is worth it. Let go, if you feel pain , if you're suffering deep bottom of your heart.
It's a hard decision, not only for one, but for all of us. In life, alot of things need to be decide in this way. Even choosing a food or a drink could be quite confusing sometime. Then can I ask? What's more to say about love? It's way too complicated too.
Sometime, I hope that I'm a baby still, a child. So that decisions would be make by my parents instead. I need not think about how good or how bad, things can go. Teens have their teenage's trouble. but not more than an adult. Till today, when I grew up and stand on my feet as a young adult, I realise troubles of an adult is way more than just a word, complicated.
Too many things to worry for.
If you feels pain , Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love? Love isnt blind, It' just that we use our heart to feel, we dont use our eyes to feel for sure. When you fell for the wrong guy, you dont blame your heart or yourself for it, there's no one or nothing that you can place the blame on. Because there's always a reason, there must be something in that person that attract you so much. Something so hard to explain. A reason but no words can easily describe.
It's more than charisma, it's more than words that describe how beautiful or kind that person may be.
Always hold on if you have the chance to, always hold on to that opportunity, to show how much you adores and cherish the relationship you have with them . Get yourself lion's courage, speak to them, tell them how you feel about them, tell them and ask them. Ask them if they're willing to be your walking stick, to be your listening ear or to be your partner.
I guess it's not hard to take that step out. Yet again, it rely on your decision. A Yes or No. How simple is that? Dont let the sand slip through your palm and when you realise, it's too late. You are unable to get back the same old sand again, even by chances you could, it's still different.
Once slipped, it happened. Nothing can change the history or past.
Decide to hold on or let go, when you are done with everything, when you're left with no ideas. Dont make a decision when you're not complete with everything, and making a fuss out of yourself, making yourself so miserable.